Convert a date in a timestamp:
strtotime ( string $datetime [, int $now = time() ] ) : int
https://www.php.net/manual/en/function.strtotime.php
Add an arbitrary amount of time in a string format:
strtotime("+1 week"), "\n";
$availability_date=get_post_meta( get_the_ID(), 'availability date', true );
$date_string=strval($availability_date);
$date_string.=" +3 weeks";
$date=new DateTime;
$diplay_time= date('d-m-Y',strtotime($date_string)) ;
$availability_date=strtotime($availability_date);